Your life is your art. This thought popped into my head this morning. I was thinking of a woman I know. She and I take long walks and talk about everything. We talk particularly intently about art. She is a visual artist and I am a writer.
What does it mean to be a successful artist? Is it about money, acclaim, the praise of your colleagues?
A good life is like a good painting, a great movie—it is a life lived with purpose, with planning, with passion, and with individuality.
Sue and I talk about what will it take for us individually to focus on our art to the exclusion of all else. Is that possible? Is it necessary? I have been raised on the idea of the artist as an outsider, without family or entanglements that might prevent or discourage the full abandonment of the individual to their art.
But I want it all. I want an artist’s life, a family life and an individual life. It seems to me that you have to carve out a spot in your life to be an artist. You have to seize the time and energy to pursue your art come hell or high water.
You need a room of your own, a little charmed cottage in the woods. Grow the hedges high, put in brambles and blackberries and thorny bushes that reach for the skies. Clear out a well worn path around this little cottage that brings air and light and pleasant breezes. Keep the boundary firm. Only, only, only let others in when your working day is over. Let the enchantment be broken at day’s end and then you can be a wife, a mother, a friend.
You have to keep “them” out, but you also need to rein yourself in. Art is not just a free flowing outpouring of spirit. It is a disciplined focused expression.
Gosh, I can’t believe I am talking about ART. I wanted to talk about how some people’s lives are art. Art with the mess, with the unexpected, with the chaos.
When I sit in Sue’s kitchen in the little sitting area with Sue and her family and the dogs and the babies and the food scattered about, I feel like I am in the presence of a great artist. A composer. A conductor without a baton.
This kind of artistry generates no income or acclaim (except for those of us that get to participate). It is performance art of the highest order.